life

  • Looking at Our Thoughts

    I am about to save you years of therapy with these little flashcards. They are a series of common Cognitive Distortions many people have adopted unconsciously. These distortion’s become the lenses through which we see and understand; the way we have perceived the world and our place in it. It’s like wearing glasses that skew

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  • Avoidance Addiction

    I don’t know if it’s a real thing, avoidance addiction. I only know today I realized how my long list of undone “to-dos” offered me an unwanted surge of adrenaline. They are significant and important things. Legal things. Financial things. Adult things. The adrenaline flooded my system, I felt like I was going to puke.

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  • Circles and Lines

    We think we know our way, that we’ve set the course ourselves, that we are paving our own path. We believe we know the lay of the land. We see a straight route. We have ideas about what we want to do, who we want to be, what it means to pursue LIFE. What we

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